Are you currently in a relationship with a guy who is fun to be with, and breaks the ice anytime you are together.
He professes his unending love to you and how much he can’t do without you, but that’s just it, he isn’t asking for more commitment, like getting married to you and it pisses you off?
Tips on how to get him to commit
1. Stop asking him to commit to you :
When you make every opportunity you have to enjoy a fundate with him all about the “question” when are we getting married?
It’s gives him the impression that you are desperate, nobody wants a Desperado for a spouse.
2. Don’t depend so much on him:
Ladies who always depend on a guy to provide everything for them will find it very difficult to get him to commit.
He wants to know that you have your own life and you can be happy without him.
3. Keep a healthy distance:
Don’t be too available and at the same time don’t be no where to be found, before he finishes dialing your number, you are already waiting to pick or return the call or messages. Have your own life, be lost doing your own thing, in line with your purpose and vision.
Let him know that you know your worth and you can be on your own and still have a life.
4. Have A Friendly Disposition to their Friends and Family:
Most people don’t put into consideration the role of the friends and family to their partner, they play a major role for some people that have them.
So you want to be nice to them so they can speak good of you while you are not there.
5. Show Appreciation:
When you receive a gift from him, be quick to say thank you, rather than complain about the size, or the colour, or the fact that it’s not what you wanted.
6. Don’t Mother Him:
Guys, because of their ego tends to move away from controlling partners who wants to track down every move they Make.
So questions like, “where have you been all day? “I have been trying to get to you, no response”
“Where were you last night I came over? Questions like this really gets him turned off. Don’t make him scared of committing to you by marrying you.
I hope these tips really helps.
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